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When “I’m Sorry” Is Long Overdue

August 6, 2017 by TheMonaLita💋

As many of you have read from following my blog for the past two years, I have had my fair share of shitty relationships and encounters with men. That’s essentially

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I. AM. UNAPOLOGETICALLY. BLACK!

July 2, 2017 by TheMonaLita💋

I am Black. I am a Black millennial. I am a Black millennial woman. I am all of these things living in a country, in a world that strategically takes shot at these elements of who I am figuratively and literally every single day of my life. There are many who see me as a threat and that’s cool of whatever (Cardi B voice) but you better believe that I am cut from a cloth that let’s me take each lickin’ and keep on ticking’ boo boo!

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My Open Love Letter To My Black Kings

October 4, 2016 by TheMonaLita💋

My Dearest Black King,

If no one has told you today, this week, this month, or even this year that they love you, understand that I do! I love you! I love everything about you. You are beautiful!

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This Is Why Remy Ma & Papoose’s Marriage Should Matter To Millennials

March 5, 2016 by TheMonaLita💋

As a millennial it is nearly impossible to turn on the TV and to see a genuinely positive couple to represent my generation. There are plenty of millennial couples that are in the entertainment biz who drag one another through the social media mud for more followers and likes. We can see that everyday.

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The Size of The Ring DOES Matter

February 29, 2016 by TheMonaLita💋

Many, many, many, many moons ago I myself got engaged (child, you can read more about dodging that bullet here). Growing up I read all of the grand fairly tales about the day that a man would get down on his knee confessing his love for me, placing a beautiful ring on my hand and would ask for my hand in marriage.